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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 12:38

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

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BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

No country for ugly people…

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

What are some tips for a girl with low self-esteem to start dating?

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

Ok, so this is a question seeking an answer to clear up whatever gymnastics are in my head. I'm a moderately attractive guy, sincere heart, genuinely looking to love another, established. Why don't women that I'm attracted to, want me back?